Wellness and the City - Five tips to find wellbeing wherever you travel
- Leslie Deshler

- Jan 22
- 4 min read

I spent the past few days in New York City, a place known far more for its pace than its pause. The primary purpose of my visit was to spend time with my son, who recently moved there, and celebrate his birthday. There was no carefully curated wellness itinerary, no retreat center tucked into the mountains, no expectation that this trip would restore me in the traditional sense. If I’m being honest, New York City isn’t typically a destination that comes to mind when I think about wellness travel, nor would I typically recommend it as a wellness destination.
Yet, I was reminded of something I’ve come to believe more deeply with every journey I take. Any location can be a wellness destination with a little intentional planning and the right mindset. Even a big, bustling city like NYC.
Every Day wellness in the heart of a big city
Cities like New York move fast, but they also make wellness incredibly accessible. Large cities tend to be at the forefront of wellness trends, offering a wide range of options such as bathhouses, drop-in yoga classes, a variety of fitness studios, day spas, and countless cafés designed for lingering rather than rushing. These experiences are easy to find and often require little advanced planning, but it’s up to you to prioritize your wellbeing. The city won’t do it for you.
While in New York, the city didn’t slow down, but I did. New York didn’t change its rhythm for me. Trains still ran on tight schedules. Streets buzzed with movement. Horns honked. People moved with haste, bundled against the winter cold, heads looking down. The city remained exactly what it is, vibrant, dynamic, and chaotic.
I took it all in, but rather than trying to keep up with the pace, I chose to move through the city differently. After a morning meditation in my hotel room, I walked a few blocks to a coffee shop, where I lingered for an hour or so, observing, being present, and noticing my surroundings. I wasn’t there to conquer a checklist of sights. I was there to be present, with my son, with myself, and experience the city I was in.
One memorable moment of the trip happened when I stepped outside on a cold, snowy morning on my way to a yoga class. I was walking, breathing in the cold, crisp, energizing air, enjoying the light snowfall around me, and appreciating the hustle and bustle of the city, already active and fully alive.
I stepped into the warmth of the yoga studio. As I flowed through the class, I found myself repeatedly drawn to the window, watching snow drift softly past the tall buildings outside. At one point, the instructor remarked that it felt as though we were practicing inside a snow globe. It was one of those unexpected moments of beauty and calm. A gentle contrast to the bustling city outside.
After class, the plan was to meet my sister and niece, who were also in town, at Bryant Park. But when I returned to my hotel room, I realized what I needed most was rest. I chose to take a hot shower, sip some hot tea, watch the snow fall from the quiet comfort of my room, and take a nap. I listened to my body instead of the schedule, and it felt wonderful.
Wellness woven into city life
Urban wellness is built through small, intentional choices that are already woven into city life, if you’re willing to look for them. It’s choosing to walk instead of rushing, starting the day with intention before stepping into the noise, or finding a quiet moment in a favorite café. It’s seeking out green spaces, like Central Park, which offer the peace and beauty of nature right in the heart of the city. It’s allowing art, architecture, and culture to inspire rather than overwhelm, and giving yourself permission to adjust your plans when needed.
The next time you plan a trip to a big city, establish simple wellness practices that ground you no matter where you are.
Start with a morning ritual. Begin your day with intention before stepping into the noise Try a short meditation in your hotel room or sip your coffee slowly at a neighborhood café.
Plan intentional movement. Schedule a yoga class, visit your hotel’s fitness center, or choose a leisurely walk through a city park as a way to stay grounded.
Build in unhurried experiences. Explore museums at a relaxed pace, allowing yourself to pause, sit, and take it in rather than rushing from exhibit to exhibit.
Let the city inspire you. Enjoy a Broadway show, take in the architecture, or wander without a destination, allowing curiosity to guide you.
Give yourself permission to adjust or rest. Listen to what your body needs and change your plans when necessary.
Big cities are powerful teachers. They can feel overwhelming or deeply energizing, depending on how you move through them and what you choose to prioritize. When you lead with intention and care for your wellbeing, the city begins to reflect that energy back to you by offering moments of beauty, calm, and connection in unexpected places. Ultimately, the destination matters far less than the presence, awareness, and compassion you bring with you. When you approach any place this way, wellness is no longer tied to where you are, but rather a reflection of how you choose to live.







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